Wednesday, November 15, 2006

OUR NEXT INSEM (EDITED @ 1:06PM)

Here's the situation:

Our known donor, H, lives about an hour and a half away. Because there is a one-hour window in which to use his sperm, we're having him spend a weekend with us. (We can't get it and get back home in time) And because we need to do it on a weekend (Dec. 8th-10th), our doctor is extending R's birth control pills by about two or three days to time everything correctly. However, if we use a donor from the bank, we won't extend her pills because we won't have to take the third person's schedule/location into consideration, thus we'd naturally be due for insemination mid-week (Dec. 5th or 6th). Did I explain that well?

In the meantime, H still has to get an updated test, so he's making a doctor appointment for this week/early next week. The other thing that needs to happen is that he needs to sign the contract we have. Some friends of ours (you know who you are! *smile*) were kind enough to allow us to obtain a copy of the contract they're using with their donor, which was drawn up by a lawyer related to them. I am sure the contract is good for them where they live, but I'm not sure if it's good for us here in GA. So, I contacted a lady I know who is a lawyer and specializes in fertility/adoption law. I'm going to have her review this contract and if need be, revise it or draw up a new one altogether. I'm not sure what her fees are, but some other friends of ours who used her services for their whole adoption said it was reasonable, so surely one contract fee wouldn't be so terrible. Anyway, I know I'll feel better knowing we've had everything checked out.

We still have a donor from the bank selected in case everything falls apart and we need to use it instead of H. But, gosh, I am reeeeeeeaaaaaaaally hoping that this thing with H goes smoothly!

3 comments:

Andy said...

How exciting for you!! We did an isnem on Nov 1 and I am waiting to test tomorrow!!! I hope that this works out for you!

Melody said...

Just curious. Why later with the known donor? I'm assuming you're using fresh, never frozen sperm with the KD and frozen, possibly washed sperm with the bank. It seems like the KD would be the earlier insem b/c fresh sperm lasts longer in the body than frozen.

Amanda said...

VERY cool, gals! Sounds like there is some exciting progress being made up in GA. :)
We are getting ready to hit the road for a couple of weeks, but we'll be excited to hear an update upon our return.